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The Appetites That Define Us: Conversations on Responsibility, Regentrification, and Winning in Business & Life

But the truth is, most people’s gut instincts are just reflections of what they’re comfortable with, not what's right.

In today’s world of disruption and discontent, where housing insecurity, economic displacement, and business failure seem to be on the rise, many entrepreneurs and everyday people find themselves wondering: How do I not just survive, but succeed?

What began as a casual conversation about real estate logistics—permits, open houses, abandoned cats—evolved into an eye-opening dialogue about what’s really affecting our communities: financial illiteracy, entitlement mindsets, and misplaced appetites.

The Truth About Today's Economy

Evictions and foreclosures are up. That’s not hearsay—it’s fact. And the reasons are painfully consistent: poor financial habits, job instability, rising property taxes, and a lack of preparation.

As one speaker shared, "Most people are one paycheck away from being on the street. If something unexpected happens, many simply don’t have the resources to recover."

This isn’t about blame. It’s about ownership. Because once you stop blaming external forces, and start taking inventory of your decisions, everything changes.

Regentrification Is Not a Conspiracy

Let’s be real: regentrification isn’t always the result of malicious actors scheming behind closed doors. Often, it’s just the predictable outcome of an economic system that rewards preparedness and punishes stagnation.

You don’t have to like it. But if you’re going to win, you have to anticipate it.

"You can't want the lifestyle of a lion with the appetite of an alley cat," one speaker declared. That line landed hard—and rightfully so. If your appetite is for comfort, entertainment, and excuses, you’ll never develop the stomach for real success.

Gut vs. Data: Which Should Drive Your Business?

There’s a trend—especially on social media—romanticizing “following your gut.” But the truth is, most people’s gut instincts are just reflections of what they’re comfortable with, not what's right.

We made it plain: If you haven’t developed the appetite for discipline, data, and execution, your gut will mislead you. That’s why tracking KPIs (key performance indicators)—like account balances, sleep quality, and daily productivity—is crucial.

Yes, intuition has its place. But as one speaker put it: “The worst decisions I’ve made in business came when I ignored the data and followed my gut, driven by misplaced loyalty.”

The takeaway? Respect your intuition—but only after you've recalibrated your appetites.

From Victimhood to Vision

Many are quick to claim the victim role—especially when challenges arise. But if you knew the storm was coming and did nothing to prepare, are you a victim or a volunteer?

That’s where clarity comes in. Once you're clear on your destination—3 months, 3 years, or even 30 years out—your behavior changes. Your taste buds shift. You begin to crave things that fuel your progress instead of feeding your ego.

And that’s when the game changes.

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Relationships, Accountability, & Building Taller Buildings

A major theme throughout the conversation was this: your network can either accelerate your growth or sabotage it.

Are the people around you edifying you? Do they respect your time? Are they accountable? Do they contribute, or just consume?

As your business scales, there’s less room for error. You can’t afford to work with people who lack the right appetite, don’t get the mission, and aren’t willing to acquire the necessary skills.

We call this the G.A.S. Framework:

  • Get the mission

  • Accountable to the vision

  • Skill-acquisition mindset

Anything less becomes dead weight.

Final Thoughts: Audit Your Appetites

Want to change your life? Change your appetite.

  • Cut the distractions.

  • Prioritize income-generating activities.

  • Spend more time in edifying environments.

  • Show up for the people who show up for you.

In a world full of noise and nonsense, the winners will be the ones who build taller buildings—not those who throw shade at others doing the work.

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